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An Olympic hero aged just 14 – but bullies make his life hell

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Published Date: 24 April 2009
ONE of Britain's top medal hopes for the London Olympics is being bullied at school due to his high profile, his parents said yesterday.
Teenage diver Tom Daley shot to national fame when he was selected for the Beijing Games and became one of Britain's youngest ever Olympians.

The 14-year-old is expected to challenge for medals when the event comes to London in 2012, but his fath
er said the success was causing him problems at school.

Rob Daley, from Plymouth, said he was considering moving his son from Eggbuckland Community College because of the constant jibes and "childish name-calling and antics" of his fellow students.

Mr Daley said: "I've been to see Tom's head of year and also the principal in the past six weeks, because Tom has been so upset.

"Although they cannot be held responsible for the students, I do think the school should be more proactive in trying to sort this bullying out.

"We wouldn't want to have to do it, but we will change schools unless this is sorted out, as my son's wellbeing comes before everything else."

Mr Daley admitted keeping Tom away from school for two days before the Easter break because he felt the bullying might affect his form at the FINA World Series competition in Sheffield.

At the event, Tom competed against Australian Olympic champion Matthew Mitcham and won a silver medal, finishing less than a point away from gold.

Tom said the bullying started after last year's Olympics and got increasingly worse.

He said: "I'd always ignored the 'diver boy' or 'Speedo boy' comments when I came back from Beijing last year, hoping they'd get fed up and stop.

"The trouble is, they haven't, and it's even the younger kids who are joining in. It's getting to the stage now where I think, 'Oh, to hell with it. I don't want to go back to school'."

Katrina Borowski, the school's principal, said: "Tom's extremely high profile has led to a minority of students acting in an immature way towards him.

"Meetings have been held between college staff, parents and Tom's friends in which appropriate strategies were discussed."

Ms Borowski said some students were sanctioned following the complaint and added that the majority considered him "a credit to our college."

Dr Mary Brown, lecturer in psychology at Robert Gordon University in Aberdeen, said bullies were just as likely to pick on a sporting hero as a timid child.

"The bullies recognise psychological strength and are envious of it. They will also be jealous of the great deal of attention Tom has been attracting because he is talented, successful, good socially and popular.

"They know that someone like Tom, who also has physical strength, has learned to harness that strength and will not allow himself to be provoked into retaliating.

"There is a myth that only 'wimpy anoraks' are bullied but the real-life evidence points to the opposite being the case."

Dr Brown added that she welcomed the fact that Tom and his father had drawn attention to the problem. "Tom has done the right thing by speaking out. An Olympian admitting he is being bullied will help others who don't have his confidence."



SPRINGBOARD TO SUCCESS

TOM Daley, 14, attracted public attention last summer as Great Britain's youngest competitor at the Beijing Olympics.

Daley, who specialises in the 10m platform event, finished seventh in the individual platform competition and eighth in the synchronised 10m competition.

During the Olympics, he rowed with diving partner Blake Aldridge when the latter phoned his mother between rounds.

When Aldridge missed the British Championships because of an injury sustained in a nightclub incident, Daley's father said he would like his son to have a different diving partner.

This month he started diving with Max Brick, two years his senior, compared with the 12-year gap with Aldridge. The teenager started diving at seven and is a member of Plymouth Diving Club. In 2007, Daley was BBC Young Sports Personality of the Year.



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  • Last Updated: 23 April 2009 11:36 PM
  • Source: The Scotsman
  • Location: Edinburgh
  • Related Topics: London Olympics 2012
 
1

Finlang,

Switzerland 24/04/2009 02:56:10
Bullies are bad, inferior people. They are motivated by envy and self-loathing. Tom Daley will be out of that environment in a few short years an will be able metaphorically to spit on the lowlife that made his time at school miserable. Chin up, diver-boy, it stops eventually.
2

Finlang,

Switzerland 24/04/2009 02:56:57
Bullies are bad, inferior people. They are motivated by envy and self-loathing. Tom Daley will be out of that environment in a few short years and will be able metaphorically to spit on the lowlife that made his time at school miserable. Chin up, diver-boy, it stops eventually.
3

Finlang,

24/04/2009 02:58:45
the dreaded double post ...
4

Kate,

Zurich 24/04/2009 07:09:32
Finlang you are just attention seeking with a double entry! But you are absolutely right, bullies are cowards.
5

Dave From Barra,

Western Isles 24/04/2009 08:20:01
Sometimes the bullied become bullies. Not always the case that bullies are cowards.

Finlang made the case in point:

"Tom Daley will be out of that environment in a few short years an will be able metaphorically to spit on the lowlife that made his time at school miserable"

Meaning, once he gets his confidence, he will bully those that bullied him.
6

Conan the Librarian™,

24/04/2009 09:14:33
If bullying is driving past the baseball capped fugwits in your Mercedes, then bully for him.
7

Horrible Cankers @Cyber Shebeen,

24/04/2009 09:33:22
Nice choice of words Dr Brown "Wimpy anoraks"...I assume you are referring to quiet shy children?

Sticks and stones and all that...but it is not so simple and the schools should be cracking down on bullying..it does help to crush the confidence of children and some of the bullies that get off scot free walk away to become thugs. Schools need to redress the balance..children have no choice...we put them in an environment where they are at the mercy of other children...without the protection of their parents or family..it is therefore the responsibility of the schools to observe and ensure that they are in a safe environment...

These other youngsters are obviously jealous....good on Tom for speaking out..and good on him for not lashing out...here's hoping this harrassment will not affect his performance....
8

Boy Wonder,

24/04/2009 09:56:13
Schools say they have "No-bullying policies" and that "bullying" doesn't happen at their premises.
NEWSFLASH!
Bullying occurs everywhere ... schools are powerless against it ... and school bullies often become workplace bullies.
Of course it must be stamped out! And I urge every parent to listen to their kids, even when the kid doesn't tell them, and act on it!!! It is a VILE practice which can lead to suicide amongst our youngsters ... and it must NEVER be tolerated.
Tom Daley is successful and has public attention. He does what he does in swim-trunks and you can just the imagine the sneers and mockery that gets.
It's pure jealousy and spite that drives bullies ... and it needs to be stamped on ... HARD!!!

We can start br bringing back the tawse for secondary schools!
9

The Ayrshire Bard,

24/04/2009 11:09:07
Could the increase in bullying coincide with the decrease in school sports fields and compulsory sporting activities?
#8 Better to bring back the tawse to primary schools and catch the wee nasties when they're young enough to be taught.
10

JT,

24/04/2009 12:25:23
I suffered at school 25 years ago at the hands of bullies and a school that refused to admit that there was a problem and expected this to be exception rather than the rule these days. This is totally disgaceful, these bullies should be named and shamed and their parents must be soo proud of them not!
11

Cauchy Riemann,

Wales 24/04/2009 12:31:41
Boy wonder is 100% correct. Schools, the education department are all very good at soundbites about 'no bullying' etc.

But that is all it is - meaningless soundbites. Schools lost effective discipline sometime ago and simply do not stop unacceptable behaviour.

A know a chap whose daughter was literally suicidal about bullying. Despite repeated interaction with the school nothing was really done. He had no choice but to withdraw her.

The irony was that he then tried to get her so that she could do some classes at a local FE college, whilst she did other work homeschooling. She wasn't eligible for a place at FE college because 'a school was available for her'. If she had been permanently expelled from school then she would have been eligible!

What an 'advanced' society we live in.
12

Dorian,

Edinburgh 24/04/2009 12:32:57
I reckon he should get some of his Team GB Judo, TaeKwondo and Powerlifter buddies to have a chat with these bullies.
13

Finlang,

Switzerland 24/04/2009 18:59:44
#4 Kate

I'll gie ye "attention seeking", ye wee tyke! How's things on Zürichsee?

#5 Dave From Barra

You misread and misrepresent completely the para from my post up top. The "Meaning" you erroneously attribute to me is straight off the top of YOUR head - not mine. If you read my post properly you will note that I used the term "metaphorically".

I was bullied on and off through primary school by one thoroughly obnoxious boy who grew into a thoroughly obnoxious adult. I filled out physically in the final year of p-school and squared up to him - with desired result. In future life I did not go on do what was done to me by that coward. Dave - please refrain from using your own off-the-cuff opinions as implied "fact" from others when it is clearly not the case.




, once he gets his confidence, he will bully those that bullied him
14

Finlang,

Switzerland 24/04/2009 20:25:59
Apologies for the stray pasted line at the end ... but maybe not, as it emphasises the lack of perspicacity of the person who wrote it #5.
15

Ham Mei Si,

Hong Kong 24/04/2009 20:56:10
I have been bullied all my life, but I have never retaliated like ....5) claims. My solution to bullying is to excel in everything that I do!
16

Horrible Cankers @Cyber Shebeen,

24/04/2009 22:17:00
I was bullied at secondary school...certain persons attempted to threaten and physically attack me...one day I had enough and challenged them to a "Square go"...they shàt it....typical bullies...all mouth and superstar shoulders but when the chips are down so are they...at primary school I was physically bullied...I fought back..end of bullying...if I had kids who were being physically assaulted and bullied at school my advice to them would be defend yourself...fight back...if they assault you then you hit them twice as hard...not all children are brave enough to do this and the worst type of bullying is the psychological...it traumatises and scars people in their formative years....it must be stopped...it has to be stopped...why do schools continue to allow this to happen?...why is it not being taken seriously?..

Why do you think kids across the world are shooting their classmates dead?....

 

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